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Birthday Party

On Sunday, May 15,  Joseph M. McGrath celebrated his 75th birthday along with his 77th (his 75th was postponed because of the pandemic).  A good sized crowd showed up at the Lift Bridge Brewery in Stillwater to wish Joe a Happy Birthday!

Several of the Class of ’63 luncheon contingent made an appearance.   And we ran into classmate that most of us had not seen in decades, five in my case.  Michael Schilling was in my homeroom and he is just right of the birthday boy in the photo below.  Others in the photo are Gary Stoffel, Joe Brooks, Tom Troskey, Joe Schufman, and Dave Britz.

We all enjoyed the positive atmosphere that gave us a reason to celebrate.  And we are hopeful that Mike Schilling will join us at a future class luncheon.

Best wishes to all.

Joe Schufman

May 2022 Luncheon

Hello all,

What a climate. Last month April 14th we had the class lunch and it was a snow storm; today sunny and 90 degrees.   I’ll vote for the 90’s!

14  classmates got together today to socialize and enjoy each other’s company.

When looking at the photo in the u shaped table setting from the left—–Gary Stoffel, Ed Sund, Tom Troskey, Dave Britz, Joe M McGrath, Dave Tyree, Don Danneker, Gene Bovy, John Lentsch, Joe Schufman, Joe Brooks, Larry Moser, Tom Schleck, and John Runyon.

I heard from Greg Halbert this week and he wondered if we could have an outdoor lunch this summer. As many of you recall, for the past 6 years our classmate George Bonfe hosted a class lunch each August at his home on Forest Lake. I asked the group to think about how we could do this this summer. Any ideas let me know—THANKS.

Dave Britz has got the golf outing ( The Charlie) scheduled for Wednesday August 10th at Highland National with tee times beginning at 11:00 AM. After golf a trip to the NOOK for something to eat and drink.

Dave also spoke with the St Thomas Academy class of 63 who also meet at the Pool and Yacht Club the same day we meet to see if they have an interest in doing a combined golf outing with us. Dave will keep us informed as to how that develops.

Over the past couple of months the topic of our 60th anniversary of graduating from Cretin was brought up with the idea being what should we do. Along those lines John Runyon has been thinking and formulating some ideas about what we could do to honor the veterans in our class with a financial tie in to CDH which would be directed by us on how CDH would  use our gift. John will be working on how this might work and sharing his thoughts with us; and if anyone has ideas about this please contact John at   jrunyonnov@gmail.com  

So that’s it for today and hope you guys are well and don’t forget to check the class web site    https://cretinclassof1963.org    If you have something you would like to post on the class web site let me of Joe Schufman know.

Thanks

Tom Troskey

Late Spring at the Minnesota Canadian Border

You Minnesota city dwellers thought our spring was late. Here is a note that Jim Dimond sent Tom Troskey yesterday.

Tom: Can’t make it this month. Going to be down in Iowa watching one of my daughters get awarded her Ph.D. Proud dad!

On your comment about the snow at last lunch, attached are photos from last week up at the border. They are still looking for Spring. The waterfalls were incredible!

Jim Dimond

Texas Reunion

Hey guys,

Some fun stuff just arrived from Texas——three of our classmates live just a few miles apart in Granbury Texas.

Terry Bacigalupo, Steve Bender and Tom Schwartz with their wives all got together for lunch today and sent the photo below along with the notes.

Thank you to Terry for sending so all the class of ’63 can take a look.

Also if any of you reading this get together with other class of ’63 grads, take a photo and send it my way so it can be shared.

Best to all,

Tom Troskey

Tom, 

Three of us along with our wives got together for lunch & socializing today here in Granbury, TX. It is truly improbable & amazing that we would all retire and move to within just a few miles of one another. For anyone travelling to the DFW area, please come by to see us on Lake Granbury which is only 40 miles SW of Fort Worth.

Terry

Pictured here are: Terry & Sue Bacigalupo, Steve & Judy Bender and Tom & Sandy Schwartz.

April 2022 Luncheon

Hello All,

First off, those of you who are snow birds—-don’t hurry home. As a dozen of your classmates had lunch today we looked out the windows of  the P & Y  and wondered when will it end. Snowing like the dickens and 32 degrees.

The guys attending today were JOE BROOKS, DON DANNEKER, JOE SCHUFMAN, DAVE BRITZ, TOM TROSKEY, JOHN LENTSCH, ED SUND, DAVE TYREE, JIM DIMOND, DICK BUTLER, GENE BOVY AND TED MOUDRY.

A few items were discussed;

CDH enrollment is currently 940 students down from 1025 in 2019

The CDH athletic director is leaving to join the Minnesota State High School League

CDH has established a group known as BEAN  —- Black Excellence Alumni Network

Dave Britz has announce the annual Class of 63 golf outing (The Charlie) will be held on Wednesday August 10th at Highland National in St Paul—Mark your calendar —further info will follow soon.

Most importantly today our discussion centered on the loss of our friend Charlie Evans last Friday. All had some wonderful comments and memories about Charlie and how much he ment to them individually and to the class of 63 in general.

We will miss Charlie greatly and remember him forever. Charlie’s life will be celebrated at the Pool and Yacht Club on Sunday May 1st from 3-7PM.

We usually have a few photos of the class lunch but today there is ONE photo.  CHARLIE at our March class of 63 lunch.

May Charlie rest in peace.

Tom Troskey

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Vietnam Veterans Day – Thoughts on Our Classmates

From Our Classmate John Runyon

For my classmate Mike Ryan, “Doc” Strusinki`s simple, honest account of his year in country from Aug `67 to Aug `68 brought to me a stark reminder of our combat guys` courage and sacrifice. The`re our “greatest generation” members, like the heros of WWII.

Forest Lake is home to American Legion Post 225 and George Bonfe, who was an active supporter., Their event two days ago was much too big for me to make inquiries about some kind of memorial centered on George and Mike (Not to mention agent orange victims Frank Lentsch,Tom Hollihan, and others .)  But the panel discussion surely enlightened folks like me who didn’t experience the Viet Nam War firsthand, but reading the pages of “Doc”Strusinski`s book afterward, will take you there with Mike Ryan.

Now a band of brothers, avoiding tripwire trails to instead push through snake and VC ambush brush, are themselves on night ambush patrol to “seek and destroy” the enemy.  Each doesn`t know if he`ll take a bullet, grenade or mortar round before his personal daily countdown to exit this mess, but this night their lives depend entirely on each other, and leaving no one behind.

That`s what Mike Ryan did. His citation for combat valor doesn’t say it, but I`m told he was shot while attempting to drag one of his wounded soldiers into cover after an ambush. His bravery that day left him paralized from the waist down for life, and what he did with the rest of his life was even more amazing.

This day March 29, VietNam Veteran`s Day, is the occasion two days ago, for the memorial at American Legion Post 225 in Forest Lake, so fitting for our Class of `63 because that`s George Bonfe`s home, another `63 wheelchair bound Veteran who`s personal grit matches Mike Ryan. With their examples, I sure know to “not sweat the small stuff”.

Below is my brief summary of the Post 225 event Sunday last–

Veteran`s event at Forest Lake Legion Post 225 was very impressive.

Arriving 5 minutes beforehand, I had to park a block and a half away because cars overflowed the lot, the room, (maybe 400 capacity) was packed, and they ran out of programs.

I found one of the last seats, next to a lady who had lost her husband to multiplecancers from Agent Orange. We had guys like Frank Lentsch and Tom Hollihan who made it home without the massive injury that Mike Ryan and George Bonfe overcame, yet succumbed too early to the aftermath of their military service.

Bill Strusinski, a Nam Combat Medic, moderated a panel discussion of two army nurses and three wounded soldiers who had been medevacked to forward hospitals. The discussion was easy at first, but gradually many of us in the audience with dim memories awoke to the tragedy and devotion to duty so vivid in the vignettes they shared.

WOUNDED IN WAR was the program title Bill ably moderated, because he wrote the book “Care Under Fire” partly as therapy 50 years after his tour of duty. You could tell, listening to the nurses and medevacked soldiers yesterday, that the big memories had hardly faded. I thought of Mike Ryan and the courage under fire which cost him so much.

Bill Struskinsi was signing books afterward, and when my turn came, I briefly told him about our two amazing classmates who showed such bravery, family dedication and community service AFTER their time with the Army.    He signed the inside:

“To George Bonfe & Mike Ryan, who gave their legs to benefit us all.  You know how to turn adversity into something positive”  Reading that later, I thought “into something awesome

So I started the book last night and couldn’t put it down. Awaking this morning I found it beside the bed and couldn`t let it go again. It’s a simple honest read punctuated occasionally by some stark tragedies of guys he couldn’t save. How does a Combat Medic forget one of his wounded brothers dying in his arms?  In the book Bill says that it was “relatively easy to compile because many incidents are as fresh in my mind today as if they had occurred yesterday— not fifty years ago”

The personnel PTSD Bill helped cleanse with this book surely brings into focus the double whammy, physical and mental, amazingly overcome by guys like our wounded veteran classmates. I couldn`t stop reading till finishing all 211 pages this afternoon.

I escaped unscathed by serving 6 years in the National Guard, which pales by a new understanding of Mike Ryan`s Vietnam “blood, sweat and tears.”  Maybe Forest Lake Post 225, but somewhere, its time to again honor these guys.  And Tomorrow, Tuesday March 29th, is VietNam Veterans Day—-

“We will hold you dear forever, for the memory of your sacrifices nurtures the spirit of our nation.”

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March 2022 Luncheon

Hello Guys,

Still winter hear in Minnesota but that didn’t deter the gathering of class of 63 members that spent two hours socializing and enjoying the camaraderie.

We started off talking about CDH in the State Hockey tournament and the CDH game began just as our lunch began and by the time our lunch broke up the bubble had burst for the CDH guys. The succumbed to the boys from Prior Lake 6-0.

Some of our regular luncheon attendees are ailing and we look forward to Pat Mc Donnell and Rick O’Connor to be back with us soon.

John Runyon is putting together a tribute to two of our classmates Mike Ryan and George Bonfe who led remarkable lives after becoming paraplegics over 50 years ago, John will have some details on his idea in the near future.

Hope many of the snowbirds will be back in town in time for our next luncheon on Thursday April  14th—-mark your calendars.

Thanks and best to all

Tom Troskey

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CDH Hockey 2022

As we sit down for lunch Thursday March 10 the CDH boys hockey team will be taking on Prior lake in the quarterfinal round of the Big School Minnesota State High school Hockey tournament. CDH most recently won the State Crown in 2006 when the young man pictured below with the Stanley Cup was a junior defenseman on the CDH team. Two time Stanley Cup winner Ryan McDonagh brought the Stanley Cup back to CDH last August and as I understand spent considerable time with both the boy’s and girl’s hockey teams at CDH. CDH is the second seed in the tournament with only perennial contender Hill Murray seeded higher. These two teams are in separate brackets and if both win would face each other in the Championship final.  GOOD LUCK TO THE CDH GUYS, especially our classmate Dave Odlaug’s grandson Kevin.

Tom Troskey

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February 2022 Luncheon

Hello Guys,

Today we had a pleasant couple of hours socializing with 11 of our Cretin classmates.

We began the gathering remembering and respecting our classmate who passed away on Jan. 29th   and signed a card to send to Judi, Ken’s wife.——-Rest in peace Ken Rogers!

Our friend, classmate and regular lunch attendee Pat McDonnell is going through some serious medical issues and could not be with us. Pat is staying optimistic and hopes get back to attending the class of 63 gatherings in the future. Say some prayers for Pat!

We had a “young “ guest today from the Cretin Class of 65, Jim Hannegan. Jim and I have known each other since grade school and Jim is active in the Cretin Class of 65 gatherings and web site. Seeing the website Jim set up for the class of 65 inspired me to see if there was a chance to get one done for the class of 63. Knowing Joe Schufman had some computers  skills I asked him about a web site—Joe would check into it and called Jim to discuss. Next thing I know is a few weeks later Joe calls me and asks if he can stop by to show me some web site ideas he had. Joe had it down and within a few more weeks there was the class of 63 web site up and running—-THANK YOU Jim H. and Joe S.

On a very bright side classmate Charlie Evans was with us today as he recovers from recent Heart Surgery. He looks good, sounds good and says he is feeling good—GREAT NEWS

The CDH hockey team continues to top the big school hockey rankings in the state—-lets hope we seeing them in a few weeks in the State HS Hockey Tournament at the xcel rink.

Notice the photo below, it is one of our classmates with a friend—-while we were having lunch at the Pool and Yacht club on the icy Mississippi Gary Stoffel and his friend Sue Marschall (Derham 68) were enjoying the often wild PGA golf tournament —The Phoenix Waste Management Open. Looks pretty darn good to me…….

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https://photos.app.goo.gl/fuFmsTw297riS5ko7       Take a look at this link, I knew our classmate Joe Schufman has photography as one of his hobbies and over the years Joe and I would talk about his photography and he would occasionally send me some photos. Joe moved out of St Paul a few years back and now resides in rural western Wisconsin. As Joe said all the years he live in St Paul taking sunrise photos from his house in the middle of the city didn’t show much but now his clear view of the sunrise has resulted in what I think are stunning and soothing photos—-I bet you will also.

Finally mark your calendar for the class of 63 lunch next month—-MARCH 10th.

Tom Troskey

January 2022 Luncheon

Hello Guys,

Today nine classmates had lunch at the Pool and Yacht club and enjoyed a fine two hours of socializing.

We started off by remembering three of our classmates who passed away recently George Bonfe (11-11-21) Jim Winkel (11-18-21) and Denny Cooney (12-25-21)    MAY THEY REST IN PEACE.

We had sympathy cards that were passed around and signed by all and I dropped them in the mail to the families on my way back home from the P&Y.

Joe M McGrath  told us about his tour of the new Stem center at CDH that was donated by Ron Ryan (62). Joe was favorably impressed with the facility and the students who served as his tour guides. A special thanks to RON RYAN is in order along with many other alumni who support the school.

I spent a few minutes telling the group about a three hour meeting I had on Dec 15th at CDH with Stan Davis the interim director of Diversity. The meeting was brought about by concerns I had with supporting CDH in the aftermath  of the anti-police and racial issue uprising/protests  at CDH last spring.

We passed around a nice newspaper page that detailed the hiring of a new football coach at CDH and also an article on the CDH men’s highly ranked hockey team with a photo featuring a CDH player with a familiar name in our class Kevin Odlaug who is the grandson of our classmate Dave.

John Runyon has a project he is putting  together to honor two members of our class. Details will be made available to all of us in the near future.

You will recall two of our classmates, Charlie Evans and Ted Moudry had heart surgery the same week in December. I have heard from both of them and thankfully their rehab and recoveries are going well. Much to be thankful for!

That’s it guys.

Next lunch is Thursday February 10th.  Mark your calendar.

Tom Troskey

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